Reading LIst
Books that Sage Therapy Chicago is currently recommending as excellent resources for self-care, growth and empowerment
Personal Growth

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
Lori Gottlieb

The Highly Sensitive Person
How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You
Elaine Aron

Loving Bravely
Twenty Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want
Alexandra Solomon

Crucial Conversations
Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
Kerry Patterson

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
Lindsay C. Gibson

You Are A Badass
How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life
Jen Sincero

Quiet
The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
Susan Cain

Radical Acceptance
Awakening the Love That Heals Fear and Shame
Tara Brach

Healing Rage
Women Making Inner Peace Possible
Ruth King

Set Boundaries, Find Peace
A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
Nedra Glover Tawwab

Self-Compassion
The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself
Kristin Neff

Burnout
The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski
Relationships

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
John Gottman

Eight Dates
Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
John & Julie Gottman

Attached
The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love
Amir Levine & Rachel S.F Heller

The 5 Love Languages
The Secret to Love that Lasts
Gary Chapman

Dating a Narcissist
The Brutal Truth You Don't Want to Hear: How to Spot a Narcissist on the Very First Date and Setting Boundaries to Become Psychopath Free
Theresa Covert

Healing From a Narcissistic Relationship
A Caretaker's Guide to Recovery, Empowerment, and Transformation
Margalis Fjelstad

Mating in Captivity
Reconciling the Erotic & the Domestic
Esther Perel

The State of Affairs
Rethinking Infidelity
Esther Perel

Designer Relationships
A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Relationships
Mark A. Michaels & Patricia Johnson

Hold Me Tight
Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Dr. Sue Johnson

Opening Up
A Guide to Creating & Sustaining Open Relationships
Tristan Taormino

Greedy
Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much
Jen Winston

The Ethical Slut
A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love
Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

The Gaslight Effect
How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life
Robin Stern

Be Not Afraid of Love
Lessons on Fear, Intimacy, and Connection
Mimi Zhu
Trauma

The Body Keeps the Score
Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel van der Kolk

Waking the Tiger
Healing Trauma
Peter Levine

It Didn’t Start with You
How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle
Mark Wolynn

What Happened To You
Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
Bruce D. Perry

Trauma Stewardship
An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others
Laura van Dernoot Lipsky
with Connie Burk

The Boy Who Was Raised As a Dog
And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook
Bruce D. Perry

The Deepest Well
Healing the Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma and Adversity
Nadine Burke Harris

The Pain We Carry
Healing from Complex PTSD for People of Color
Natalie Y. Gutiérrez

In an Unspoken Voice
How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness
Peter A. Levine

No Bad Parts
Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
Richard Schwartz

Trauma and Recovery
The Aftermath of Violence--from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
Judith Herman
Substance Use / Abuse / Addiction

The Naked Mind
Control Alcohol, Find Freedom, Discover Happiness & Change Your Life
Annie Grace

The Alcohol Experiment
A 30-Day, Alcohol-Free Challenge To Interrupt Your Habits and Help You Take Control
Annie Grace
Important Voices

My Grandmother’s Hands
Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies
Resmaa Menakem

So You Want to Talk About Race
Ijeoma Oluo

Permission to Come Home
Reclaiming Mental Health as Asian Americans
Jenny Wang

Disability Visibility
First-Person Stories From the Twenty-First Century
Alice Wong

Care Work
Dreaming Disability Justice
Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

Salvation
Black People And Love
bell hooks

All About Love
New Visions
bell hooks

Hood Feminism
Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot
Mikki Kendall
LGBTQ+

Gender: Your Guide
A Gender-Friendly Primer on What to Know, What to Say, and What to Do in the New Gender Culture
Lee Airton, PhD

A Quick And Easy Guide To They/Them Pronouns
Archie Bongiovanni and Tristan Jimerson

The Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook
Skills for Navigating Sexual Orientation and Gender Expression
Anneliese Singh

Vastly More Than That
Stories of Lesbians & Gay Men in Recovery
Guy Kettelhack

There Are Trans People Here
H. Melt

Queer Latinidad
Identity Practices, Discursive Spaces
Juana María Rodríguez

Beyond the Gender Binary
Alok Vlad and Ashley Lukashevsky
Sexuality

Come As You Are
The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Emily Nagoski

A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex
Reclaim Your Desire & Reignite Your Relationship
Laurie B. Mintz

Becoming Clitorate
Why Orgasm Equality Matters, And How to Get It
Laurie B. Mintz

Sex Talks
The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life
Vanessa Marin

Girl Sex 101
Alliso Moon and kd diamond

Ace
What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
Angela Chen

Tell Me What You Want
The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
Justin J. Lehmiller

Unf*ck Your Intimacy
Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating
Faith G. Harper
Career & Leadership

Find Your Why
A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You and Your Team
Simon Sinek

How to Win Friends & Influence People
The Only Book You Need To Lead You to Success
Dale Carnegie

Taking People With You
The Only Big Way to Make Things Happen
David Novak
Brenee Brown

Daring Greatly
How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Brenee Brown

The Gifts of Imperfection
Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
Brenee Brown

Rising Strong
How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Brenee Brown

Dare To Lead
Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.
Brenee Brown
Grief

It’s OK That You’re Not OK
Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand
Megan Devine

Grieving While Black
An Antiracist Take on Oppression and Sorrow
Breeshia Wade
Self-Care

Burnout
The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
Emily Nagoski

Self Compassion
The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself
Kristin Neff

Set Boundaries, Find Peace
A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
Nedra Glover Tawwab

The Miracle of Mindfulness
An Introduction to the Practice of Meditation
Thich Nhat Hanh
Parenting

Whole Brain Child
12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
Daniel J.J. Siegel &
Tina Payne Bryson

Parenting From the Inside Out
How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive
Daniel Siegel &
Mary Hartzell

Good Inside
A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
Dr. Becky Kennedy